Quitting Facebook and Instagram for a Week: My Experience
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Art credits to Amanda Hu!
February 23, 2016
As with almost any other teenager, social media plays an integral part of my life. According to the Pew Research Center, 71% of American teens ages 13-17 use Facebook, and 52% use Instagram. I don’t consider myself obsessed with social media, but I check Facebook and Instagram a few times every day for leisure. So when I decided to quit Facebook and Instagram for a week out of curiosity, I was rather tentative to do so and didn’t know what to expect. Part of me dreaded it and felt that I made a foolish choice, while another part was excited to see how my daily activities might change.
I started my leave from social media on a Tuesday. From Tuesday until Friday afternoon, the lack of social media in my life did not make a substantial impact on my day-to-day routine. This surprised me somewhat since I frequently use social media and figured I’d be very bored without it. I went about my school day as normal and didn’t think about Facebook or Instagram. The only exception to this was during my lunch; I would instinctively open Facebook and Instagram on my phone and then realize that I was quitting social media and close the apps.
However, Friday afternoon to Sunday was a different story. I utilize the weekend to relax from the stressful school week and often check Facebook and Instagram during this time, so not having social media was somewhat difficult. Despite not using social media on the weekend, I was not severely impacted.
Is it possible to not have social media as a teenager and stay sane? Yes. However, there were many inconveniences that arose from a lack of social media – in particular, Facebook – during the week. I am a part of several clubs at Ridge that use Facebook groups as their primary means of communication.
Emily Arakawa ’16, secretary of Ridge Model UN elaborates, “With teenagers like me always on their phones and checking Facebook almost every minute, our daily lives constantly revolve around social media. As a secretary of Model UN, a club with 50+ members, I know that it is my duty to get meeting minutes and other important notifications quickly and efficiently. That’s why I use social media! If Facebook didn’t have the ‘group’ feature, I would have no idea to make sure everyone got the messages as less and less people check their emails nowadays… So I really do think social media is super important to my role as a secretary of this club, and I make sure to use it all the time!”
At times, finding the most updated information on my clubs was a challenge due to their emphasis on social media. Also, Facebook Messenger is very important way to connect with other friends since I often use it for group chats and getting in contact with people I don’t have the phone numbers of. Not having this at my disposal proved to be the most difficult part of quitting social media.
Despite some impediments, there were several benefits of quitting social media. As annoying as it is to hear middle-aged people complain that teenagers would be more social without Facebook and Instagram, this turned out to be true. In situations where I would normally be checking social media – for example, at lunch or at study hall – I talked to those around me. Furthermore, not using social media allowed me to concentrate more on my schoolwork and be the most productive person I can be.
But even so, I can’t say that I had an anti-social-media revelation. By the end of one week, I was relieved to start utilizing social media regularly again. Discussing the pros and cons of social media, Vamsi Talasila ’18 comments, “The positives of social media outweigh the negatives since it provides an avenue to express your interests and share them with other people, which is important and also provides a fun aspect to an often worrisome, tiring environment that teens are in.”
By far the biggest takeaway from this social experiment was just how prominent social media is in the lives of the teenagers. When that week finished, I realized just how different my daily routine would be if I had quit Facebook and Instagram on a long-term basis. Social media is constantly evolving, and thus will maintain its eminence not only in my life, but also for the entire teenage demographic.
Grace White • Feb 29, 2016 at 2:11 pm
I definitely agree that social media prevents people from having a stronger bond with their friends. The time spent on social media takes away from taking to close friends.
Arsh Mohite • Feb 29, 2016 at 2:04 pm
I agree with vamsi when he says that the benefits of social media outweigh the harms because in the end, not only does social media help in emergency and is a part of everyday life, but it also helps convenience.
reshma • Feb 29, 2016 at 2:02 pm
I think its really interesting that you could stop social media for a week. personally, although it seems like a good idea, i don’t think i could ever do it. i guess that shows how much our phones and social media effects our life. good article!!
Vienna Stack • Feb 29, 2016 at 2:02 pm
I get my phone taken away at night, and a few times a month, just for this reason. It helps mental health recover from the comments and addiction of social media. It gives the mind a break from social media, and the people on it. I think more people should take breaks from social media.
Cameron Mannes • Feb 29, 2016 at 2:01 pm
I feel like social media can be a good thing. It can peak our interests and it can help us to diversify our knowledge. It really is a huge part in our lives thought. I think we should reduce our usage of social media, but not get rid of it completely
alexis and maddie • Feb 29, 2016 at 1:57 pm
social media is consuming alot of our time that we could be putting towards better activities. if we put our phones for more time we could experience more of the real world and better ourselves with face to face communication and interaction.
Bella Saylan • Feb 29, 2016 at 1:48 pm
Great and unique experiment, Alexa. Personally, as your sister, I found it interesting how your behavior changed at home. Although it was difficult to cut out technology, you were successful with your grit and determination. I mean that jokingly and seriously.
Emma • Feb 29, 2016 at 1:42 pm
I’m so shocked that you lasted as long as you did with this experiment — I know I wouldn’t have been able to give up social media for a day, much less a whole week!
Great analysis of the effect of social media on our lives.
Taylor O'Dwyer • Feb 29, 2016 at 1:35 pm
This is a great idea! In recent years social media has been taking over more and more of our lives. Taking a break from it every now and then is a good idea and really forces you to look at the world around you.
Esther Zhang • Feb 29, 2016 at 1:27 pm
I agree, I think I’m getting a bit too obsessed with social media these days. Usually, I don’t think I’m using it a lot, but once I start trying to avoid it, I realize just how much time I spend checking my phone. It’s a great way to communicate with a lot of people, but sometimes I feel like it’s distracting me from other important things, like doing homework.
Jessica Caruso • Feb 29, 2016 at 12:54 pm
I can relate to this person because at times I believe that I use social media too much. I also agree that so much of our lives depends on social media to connect with other people, often times people we would never meet otherwise. Sometimes I think I should try to quit social media for a week and see what would happen
Hannah heinemann • Feb 29, 2016 at 12:51 pm
I can’t even imagine going through for social media without a week. Being that I am so dependent on technology and social media, I would be shocked if I could actually make it through a week. However, I do think it’s a really good idea to not use social media for a week to focus on academics and sports etc.
Jasmin Kahe • Feb 29, 2016 at 12:50 pm
It’s amazing how teens can be so attached to social media, and I agree with that we have to change certain things so that teens can know whats real and whats not. Now a days, teens are always on their phone and sometimes it can be so annoying because the world is filled with amazing things and technology sometimes prevents teens. In order for teens to understand “life” technology won’t teach them everything. Anyways, social media does have it pros and cons but more cons.
Isabella Masiero+kendall Kalustyan • Feb 29, 2016 at 12:44 pm
I believe that it will be hard but it is differently possibly to quit social media.
It would be worth is to help your academic life.
Bridget Torcivia • Feb 29, 2016 at 12:40 pm
As a teenager, I feel that our lives are really affected with technology and social media and nice job on the article! I really liked your experiment with this. Keep up the good work! (: I personally, don’t have an iphone but when im hanging out with my friends they are always checking their phones on facebook and snapchat and I really see what you mean.
MadisonMalloy • Feb 29, 2016 at 12:38 pm
I think this was a really good idea, and I would love to try it. I feel like I would have really hard time giving up sicila media for an entire week. I think the benefits that were spoken about were very interesting and I might try this idea for myself
ashley • Feb 29, 2016 at 12:35 pm
I find it very intresting that we are so attached to our social media. I’ve tried to do this before but ive found myself always bored, and longing to go back on the facebook. What a time to be alive.
Mini Bokka • Feb 29, 2016 at 12:32 pm
I believe that if I were to try something like that, not much would change in my daily routine, but I would be very relieved once the week was over. I commend you on your efforts.
Georgua Jennings • Feb 29, 2016 at 12:15 pm
I completely agree! The social media takes over my life and I tend to get too distracted! I will certainly try this!
Christina Heathcote • Feb 29, 2016 at 12:13 pm
This is a great idea and must be very beneficial for people who procrastinate like me!
Caroline Schmitt • Feb 29, 2016 at 12:13 pm
This is a great idea, and I agree that social media is overused. I might need to try this “cleanse” too!!
Talia Shakhnovsky • Feb 29, 2016 at 12:06 pm
I’ve noticed that too. Social media is so important for staying in touch with teams and clubs, but because of the time I spend I end up making other sacrifices.
Mary Herron • Feb 29, 2016 at 12:05 pm
i think that media has begun to take over the lives of teenagers in America and it is important to have a healthy balance with technology and social media. I think that having a break from social media is good.
molly buzin • Feb 29, 2016 at 12:03 pm
I think this article is very good because social media hurts people and it is good to quit for a week. Social media controls people.
Nicole Kuo • Feb 29, 2016 at 12:02 pm
Just like the others, I can never imagine myself not going on Facebook or other social medias for over a couple hours, I feel like a simple click to check messages or notifications has become my habit. I agree that I waste way too much time on the internet but I’ve grown attached to it that I see it as a break for the heavy schoolwork I must complete.
Louise Choi • Feb 29, 2016 at 11:59 am
I can’t believe that you quit both Facebook and Instagram for an entire week; I can’t go by one hour without checking my phone. Reading others’ posts helps me procrastinate on tests and homework, and I always start studying much later than I should be. Although I really should try experiencing a week without social media, I’d probably die within an hour; I really admire your perseverance.
michael • Feb 29, 2016 at 11:56 am
i think that teens should use social media less because its really bad for u i like social media but its not good for u
Vanshika Bhatia • Feb 29, 2016 at 11:25 am
Honestly , I don’t use my Instagram over weekdays because it gets really distracting but when I started to stop using IG it was really hard!
Lily Yang • Feb 29, 2016 at 11:15 am
I complete agree with you in that it is possible for us to quit social media or at least lessen its impact on our lives. I think that a moderate amount would benefit us such as using it for school activities. I don’t think I can completely erase it from my life but I wish to talk to people more in real life.